Wednesday, September 19, 2012
First Soccer Game
It was a beautiful day to play soccer. It was just the right temperature not too hot and not too cold. Xuelian woke up and told Tim that she needed a good breakfast because she had to be ready for her game. I think she had sausage, eggs, fruit and orange juice. Xuelian had a great time playing in her first soccer game. It was great to see her having fun but was painful to watch as well. There are a bunch of new (to soccer) kids on the team including her. They are playing against kids who have been playing soccer for a couple of years. Well it was a blow out. I know it was at least 10 to nothing. She and the other new players didn't know what they were supposed to do and none of the coaches said anything. I think I need to talk to the coaches at practice. I've never played soccer. I would like to know what she should be doing so that I can help her learn. What I noticed was that they would say you are defending now. Well the kids didn't know what you need to do when you are defending. I think the coaches don't realize that when you have never played before you need to be spoon fed what you are suppose to do. When we started yelling from the side lines what to do they jumped in. I hope this week goes better. It would be great for team moral if they could at least score and not be shut out. I also think that some of the nervousness will be gone. She wants to learn and play well so hopefully we'll see improvements every week. I know this was hard for her she came home upset because she didn't know what to do. I told her there is no where to go but up from here and that we'll help her learn the game.
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It's hard when the coach(es) don't know how to teach the brand-new. But it's not the end of the world. My advice (not that you're looking for it ;) is to just keep accentuating the positive: "This is brand-new to you and look at what you did today: x, y, and z." And maybe you, as parents, can work together to help your children. Does anyone have an older child who plays in high school who could help, or is friends with someone else with playing or coaching experience who can help? Just some thoughts. Good luck with it!
ReplyDeleteGood ideas! I'll have to ask around. We have a lot of older kids on our block. It's hard I want to help but I also don't want to make to big of a deal out of it. I also like the idea of working with the other parents. They have to be thinking the same things. It is so hard when on one hand you are pointing out the good things they did but then add how can I help? Kids always hear the BUT... even when you do your best not to say it.
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